Melinda Morley

Writer in Progress

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If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put foundations under them. Henry David Thoreau

Am I really a runner?

I am running.

Almost every day.

Averaging 3.5 -4 miles.

Yesterday’s run felt amazing. The first mile was tough. It always is. Like I’m treading water and my legs are heavy and I think of the elephants at the zoo and hope that is not what I look like because that is how I feel.  After one mile, I stretch and then it happens. I feel like a machine. And I run. And I feel no pain. And my breath is easy and feet are light. I may still look like an elephant, but I don’t feel like it.

My easiest mile is mile 3. I get my rhythm. I feel the rush. Yesterday, I loved it so much that I cried. I was so happy that I could run. That I was strong. That the world is green and alive. That I’m alive. I breathed a prayer of thanks.

Today:  a different story. I’m told that’s how it is with running. Ups and downs. I still made it 3.5 miles and every step was hard. Every. Single. One. Hard. Heavy. Steps.

Maybe I over-thought it.

Maybe I had pushed too hard yesterday.

Maybe I have no idea what I’m doing.

But still . . .

I ran.

I’m not a sprinter. I’m slow. Very. Slow.

But I can go the distance.

And today I saw how my running mirrors my life.

I’m not a sprinter.

But I can take it slow and steady.

And I get there.

And I’m not afraid of things that are hard. (Particularly if it is self-inflicted: getting a degree at age 37, homeschooling my children, natural childbirth, writing, and now running.)

I love to run.

I thought I’d never say that.

I love to run.

There I’ve said it again.

What do you for a challenge? What do you do that is hard?

1. Kristi Stevens - May 19, 2009

You’re 37? :)

It’s all about the love. If you love it, you push through. Even when it’s hard.

2. admin - May 19, 2009

Okay, not officially 37 until December. Don’t rub in it that I am OLDER than you, okay?

I agree. It is all about the love. I love the way I feel when I’m done running. I love the way I feel when I’ve written an amazing sentence after pages of drivel. I love seeing my kids lying around with their noses in books and knowing that I taught them not only to read, but to love it. Maybe I should write another blog post, this is getting long. Lol.

3. Karen Hoover - May 19, 2009

I wish I could run like that. You make me want to. Miss you, friend. You are so awesome and I just LOVE the way you write!

4. Shari - May 19, 2009

What an inspiration you are to me. . .even after 15+ years or however many years it has been. Thanks!

5. Rachelle - May 19, 2009

You must’ve got inside my head and pulled out all my feelings! I loved this post and I’m so glad that you are learning to love to run. I’m re-learning and in the not so fun stage–I haven’t run in a year and this hurts–but my baby boy is so cute it’s worth it! I wanted to tell you about an awesome contest I entered at
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Check it out and please vote for me, #319 for the cutest craft giveaway. Thanks a bunch!

6. Abby - May 20, 2009

I love that you love to run, because even if I could run, I wouldn’t love it! I would rather dance, or do aerobics, or something a little less monotonous than running. Right now, just walking is a challenge to me, so maybe I should start with that. Maybe I should walk up my street everyday, and eventually it wouldn’t be such a challenge…
Hmm…a blog post in your comments! How’s that?! Love you. Keep running, Forrest!

7. Darlene - May 22, 2009

I want to be a runner. I’m still (and always have been, I think) in the hard stage. How long did it take you to come to love it? How do you build up? I am so slow that I don’t get much distance in 1/2 an hour. I need you to counsel me.

8. Jared Nathan Garrett - May 22, 2009

Hey,
Me too now. Is it Kristi’s influence? I’ve been reading a book by Stu Mittleman and it has totally changed the way I see running.

I’m not at loving it stage, but I like the movement a lot. I love the way my body feels after I’ve done 3 to 3.5 miles.

I’ve actually run 3 miles 5 times in the last two weeks. I have never ever ever (ever) done that before.

I love the effect this activity is having on my softness.

Sorry for the long comment. I’m glad you’re running. I think there’s something fundamental to it that each person can eventually touch. Keep up the running and writing.


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