Hate Mail
Have you ever found out after being friends with someone for years, that they really don’t like you? Or maybe they like you, but you really bug them? And then they graciously take it upon themselves to let you know what an annoying person you really are and all the things “You really should listen me” that are wrong with you?
No?
Well, yesterday I had that rather ugly experience and at first I was shocked, then a little angry, then I vehemiently (is that a real word?) denied the allegations. Finally, I was hurt.
That was yesterday. Today is a new day. I feel better. In fact I feel great.
I have gained some insights.
First, this person is probably not very happy inside to say such things. That makes it very easy to forgive the misgivings that this person has had about me.
Second, I really like who I am regardless of what this person says and the only change I will make in my personal habits is in associating with this person. (Who needs that kind of garbage in their lives?)
Third, I am actually grateful for the experience, because I realized again now great my life really is and how much I love what I am doing, and if that bugs other people, I think that is their personal problem.
So, in then end. She really did me a favor, thanks.
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